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How to Deal with Stress in Midlife

How do you deal with stress in midlife? For many women who are entering their 40's or 50's, there is the sudden realization that you still have a lot of external factors in you life that you have to juggle as your body adjusts to many physical and emotional changes. The normal distractions of life--such as the feeding, rearing and educating of children and the running of a household with its many details. Your job has constant deadlines. You experience caregiver stress because your aging parents need your assistance. You are either experiencing empty nest syndrome or running to all of your children's many activities. It is in this period of midlife, that women experience menopause and menopause stress. You may find it more difficult to deal with everyday situations and long for any form of stress relief than at other stages in your life.

During midlife, the ability to deal with stress is a lesson in leaving minor distractions behind. Life's big crises always cause stress--you know that. Divorce, a death in the family, losing a job or crashing a car cause stress and anxiety. But in midlife, when you thought that things might get a little easier, you often find yourself still climbing out of debt or still climbing the corporate ladder or assuming more caretaking responsibilities for aging parents.

Women at midlife, ages 45-54, provide more emotional support to others than during any other period of life. At this stage in your life, you may be taking care of both children and aging parents and dealing with menopause. Things have not turned out the way you envisioned they would. You might start to question your life's circumstances but this is no way to deal with stress in midlife.


It is time to stop and answer the following questions:
"What positive action can I take that will enable me to use my talents and energy to assist others?"
Depending on the skills, talents and interests you posses, you can volunteer at various service organizations. Do you like cats and dogs? Humane societies are eager to have volunteers spend time in socializing their animal population. Are you a good communicator? Maybe you can share your life experiences with others in order to help them through their tough times. Helping others is a great way to forget about your own stress and make a difference in other peoples' lives. That feeling of self-worth is a better and beneficial way to deal with stress associated with midlife.

Anne Morrow Lindbergh, in Gift from the Sea, offers insight into how women entering midlife can struggle to make sense of their changing life stages and deal with stress associated with these various stages. This is one of my very favorite books.
"For is it not possible that middle age can be looked upon as a period of second flowering, second growth, even a kind of second adolescence?"

Remember, mid-life (between the ages of 35-55) is a transitional period for women. You're eager for new beginnings--but not so sure of your approach with age, health, relationship and/or financial issues causing concern and sometimes limiting the progress of your renewal. At her website Healthy Lifestyle Success, Caroline Shipsey has some more options about following a healthy lifestyle in midlife based on her own experiences. There are many options for building a rewarding midlife experience. This web resource also provides strategies to bring equilibrium into your mid-life transition.
If you are having questions about the meaning of life or feel a sense of confusion about where your life is going, remember that you are not alone. You are entering a new stage of life that often requires you to re-examine what you have planned for your future. To deal with the stress of midlife, consider this time to be a new beginning and take advantage of the resources we have listed for your self-improvement!

Finding Life Balance During Midlife Transitions

5 Tips For Handling Menopause Stress

Are You Dealing with An Empty Nest?

Dealing with Caregiver Stress?

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