We know about bullying, but cyberbullying is becoming the method of choice by many of the instigators today. Being the object of bullying was never fun as I remember. But now the activity has the opportunity of being anonymous using the internet. The activity is also a lot more vicous and dangerous for our youth. Victims can be so overcome by the horrific messages being spread and taunted on the internet that they find no recourse but removing themselves from the situation--even if it means committing suicide. What about cyberbullying?
This generation has never know a world without smart phones, internet,Twitter, and Facebook. There are many advantages to these electronic features, but they also come with reminders that the web can be hurtful and destructive. Hurtful online posts or innapropriate digital photos can be destructive.
Cyberbullying messages can be sent from phones or computers and are purposely meant to be hurtful by providing information that is embarrassing or humiliating. These documents can stay on the internet forever and can provide long term problems when college admissions officers or future employers start to look at an individual's online reputation. And this is becoming a widespread activity with approximately 40% of our teenage population reporting that they have been a victim or promoted bullying online.
If you find that your child is upset about bullying and talks about hurtful messages and
bullying,
or if you suspect that this might be happening, here are things you can do.
1. Maintain open, honest communication with your child so that she will feel comfortable in talking with you about such issues as cyberbullying if they arise. Mood changes could be a sign that something is wrong.
3. Keep track of what your child is doing online. Be aware of your child's usernames and passwords to her different internet accounts. Monitor her use of the social media sites. If she knows that you will be monitoring her activities she may be more careful about what she is posting and reading online. Secretive use of the computer may signal something is wrong.
4. Use SocialMention.com to create an account and receive daily alerts if your child's name is mentioned on any post.
5. All social media sites have privacy settings that you can monitor behavior and if you have a complaint, contact the webmaster.
6. You can contact the parents of the person who made the offending post and ask that it be removed.
7. You can also contact the police if necessary. Take a screen shot or make a photocopy of the information so that you have clear documentation. Definitive proof is required to defend your complaints and take any punitive actions.
We know about bullying, but cyberbullying is becoming the method of choice by many of the instigators today. Being the object of bullying was never fun as I remember. But now the activity has the opportunity of being anonymous using the internet. The activity is also a lot more vicous and dangerous for our youth. Victims can be so overcome by the horrific messages being spread and taunted on the internet that they find no recourse but removing themselves from the situation--even if it means committing suicide. What about cyberbullying?
