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The Wheel of Life


The following "Wheel of Life" exercise helps us look at the various life functions which we address on a daily basis. It is not unusual, as a women, to find ourselves pulled in one direction or another and end up focusing most of our attention in a few selected areas of our lives. When this happens other areas of our lives get neglected. There are times when life is going to be out of balance due to specific circumstances beyond our control. But it is always best to try to keep some balance and maintain a feeling of satisfaction with our lives.

The Wheel of Life exercise is designed to help you determine whether you are focusing too much on one part of your life and, consequently, neglecting others. I have divided the graphic depiction of a wheel into the 6 sections described below. These categories may vary depending on the individual, but with these categories as a template, you can gain an understanding of whether your life is in balance or out of balance. Consider how much of your time you spend in each of these 6 areas over a week's time:

Physical Environment--life at home and community
Career and Finances--your employment path and income
Physical Health--taking care of your physical body
Significant Other, Friends and Family--quality time spent with friends and family members
Spiritual and Personal Growth--your spiritual relationship
Fun and Recreation--your leisure time activities


First. Assign a number from 1 to 10 for each category. The number "1" on the first line closest to the center, represents the least amount of time and the number "10" represents the greatest amount of time.

Second.Plot a dot for this assigned number on the corresponding concentric line in each area. When you connect the dots for each category, you will see how balanced your life is.

Last. Looking at the 6 Wheel of Life categories, list them in order of satisfaction in your life. Next to each category, indicate how much time per day you spend in that area.


Satisfaction level: ---------------Time spent per day:

1. ____________________________________________________

2. ____________________________________________________

3. ____________________________________________________

4. ____________________________________________________

5. ____________________________________________________

6. ____________________________________________________

The purpose of this activity is to identify where you are currently in your life and to identify how balanced your current life situation is. If your wheel is very uneven, imagine how bumpy or uncomfortable life’s journey is or will be. A large, well-balanced growing wheel is a sure sign of a happy successful and satisfied life. But a balanced life does not mean that you spend the same amount of time in each area. Some areas will need more attention than others depending on various situations that come up. Also, you will find that compromising will still be a required necessity since no matter what, you will only have 24 hours in a day!

Look at your satisfaction scores. What are the 2 lowest scores?
1.

2.

How much time per day do you spend on each of these categories? What can you change to improve these satisfaction scores? What would be the ideal level of time to spend in each of these areas so that you could be more satisfied.

Look at your satisfaction scores. What are the 2 highest scores?
1.

2.

How much time per day do you spend on each of these categories? Is there anything you need to change in these categories?

After you have reviewed your findings, return to your Wheel of Life graph and plot what you would consider to be ideal amounts of time in each of the 6 areas. You will notice a gap of time in certain areas. These are the areas of your life that need attention. Some areas you may be spending too much time in and some areas you may be spending too little time.


This exercise gives you a visual picture how you currently are spending your time. This exercise shows if you are balancing life’s priorities. Perhaps it indicates that you may be placing others’ needs ahead of your own. As you review the 6 areas of the Wheel of Life chart, consider your neglected areas and identify what things you could start doing to attend to these areas. Consider what activities are taking you away from your focus and priorties. How can you change this?

Also this exercise is a great starting point for establishing goals. Consider setting goals for yourself with your new perspective on a well-balanced life. Well defined goals help you create a target destination and help you create a clear action plan to regain this newly aligned sense of balance in your life. The positive result of completing this Wheel of Life exercise is that you can set a course of action to avoid burnout, anxiety, stress, or loss of health as you move toward a more satisfying and enriched life.


Achieving Life Balance

Stress Free Living: Using the Wheel of Life

What Pulls You Out of Balance

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